My co-worker Jessie who is an environmental scientist, really got into the topic of sending e-cards for Valentine’s Day. She wrote this article for our blog at work and said I could share it here.
Like two ships that passed in the night…He forewent ink use. She saved paper. He conserved petrol. She shrunk her carbon footprint. Thinking globally, acting locally…green passion in their hearts.
These modern lovers both chose a red-hot (it definitely was) and environmentally friendly (love my planet too) e-card for Valentine’s Day. And that green sentiment sweetly sent through cyberspace just perfectly ignited that spark and fire for the relationship (or so they thought). But, that particular spark set off that specific fire that then ignited that unwanted red rage (otherwise known as: e-love hurts [listen to this several times for best effect!]). Can an e-card communicate deep sentiments of love? Yikes, did a photo of a box of chocolates accompany that electronic love too?
Those of us that recall the rotary phone may have this sense that meaningful exchange involves deliberate (went-out-
of-the-way to stop at that paper place that sells handmade cards)and handwritten effort. Heart-felt meaning used to be expressed in texture (glued-on felt hearts, confetti-filled, “sealed with a kiss”), inked sentiments in a well-known scrawl, paid in cash ($6.99 for that pulp made-by-hand sweet wonder), or expended effort (spent an hour sifting through two aisles of cards). For those more worthy, it involved a laborious process of shopping all over town for the right supplies then gluing each heart and doily to make that special Valentine.
Yet, is that so? Is that really more meaningful?
Do those with gold medals in thumb-gymnastics (texting, tweeting, typing) have lackluster Valentine’s days? Do those
that have no history whatsoever of waiting anxiously at their mailbox for that one special Valentine(—see photo if you’ve never seen a non-cyber mailbox), for over a week for a return letter, have a gaping void in their relationship but can’t put their finger (not the thumb) on why?
Or,
Can we tweet our love, save the planet, and yet keep it red-hot? This gal needs to know (in time for the next holiday, so post your thoughts now).